Chidiya chug gayi khet.. Now??

A youngster opted for course in animation for graduation and MBA for post grads, BCA and then MBA, why not MCA? A very common phenomenon around us .Do we ever think why this or why that?

We in India come to know about our interest at the age of 21 – 22 tab tak toh Chidiya chug gayi khet.... We are already a graduate admitted in PG College. Thanks to our socially pressurized parents who with or without any reiki just believe on the alluring well-wishers who don’t even know us pretend to be pensive and decree our future. Imagine investment of 22 years “of your life” has to be revised ...lol...jo chal raha hai chalne do ...Naa ho payega...

Curriculum of MBA gives me a perception that it might have started with holistic approach but camouflaged itself into a glamorous baby doll. Being an academician feel like we should have psychometric analysis before opting specialisations. This  is there in the market but more as a business. We should cease opting a particular course cause marketing ka bahut scope hai boss, or HR is good for girls so the myths go on. Scope of the market is not going to convert your introvert genome, we have to check ourself if we don’t want to spend our life doing something for which we are not made. I know this sound like a filmy advice.

Then which way to go ... answer lies from day one in simple concept told by Buddha, applicable till date... “Know thyself”. Hey ram such a deep concept for nanhi si jaan... again leave it .......Naa ho payega. 

Jattbudhi – used or misused

Current news is flooding with Jatt asking for reservation in Haryana. Requirement of reservation is for them who are incapable. Are they shouting, fighting and destroying their own beautiful province to prove that they are incapable. Jatt in my memory are people with abundance of health, wealth and ofcourse not to forget guts. They make Haryana and Punjab beautiful, lively and rich.

Reservation started being just a weapon of government to deal with caste discrimination, further continued as a vote generating magical stick and today bounced back as a punching bag. 

Is being a mother itself is confusing ???

Can’t we poor mothers have some formal education or some beginners manual to solve the biggest challenge of our life i.e. what to do and what not to do with these tiny creatures-kids?

Being a mother since last 12 years made my grey matter a volatile substance.  A section of immaculate learning says let him do what he wants to do then god forbidden can’t even imagine his downwards shooting grades which can lead me towards a heart attack. And if I dare to follow system then the world curse me for being over ambitious. While providing him food if we go by choices then the million dollar question is whose??  Mine (nutritious) vs. His (Junk). To send them for coaching’s or give your evening chills and thrills?    The veracity of my emotions lies in sleepless nights and shouting mornings.

Once heard while making them grows we evolve. Just want to ask a last question.. Whom to blame the system, our own upbringing or the baba Ranchod Dass - a trigger to my dilemma...

Still Dicey..............

Again a new blogger on the floor...........

Again a new blogger on the floor...........

We all have friends who always overestimate us, likewise I am also privileged with few. They supported this new bug of writing in me and here I am with a blog. Though created account many years ago but ignited now. God bless Google baba for providing recipe to all these craving and as they(my friends) said writing will give me a platform to express more without estimating that being a women who speaks a lot and everywhere platform is never a question . Like all new beginners don’t know which way to go, so categorizing is still not in mind. So here I am with lot to say..............