Textrovert : a new word for terminology or psychology……

Yesterday while surfing internet I found a new word textrovert. Further its meaning tickled my grey matter more.

Textrovert (n) means a person who feels more comfortable talking over text than to your face.

So now if you can’t propose her or complain her on face, don’t worry you have a category to fall in. You can type whatever you want to say and text… so easy na…Now what about the truthfulness of eyes and the long pauses. For this I think emoji (emotives) and stickers can do the favors. Where to go man, cyber law says if a girl finds my emotional expression offensive she can sue you and here I am “A Textrovert”…Huh….Now you can explain your status to everyone and anyone through a text. So now onwards all the famous theories on personality types have to go for an up gradation. And where our society will slot this new jargon like, it used to accept male as extroverts and female are expected to behave introvert. What to do with textrovert?? Well let the psychologist do their work till then I am happy texting my hubby ……….”pls TV ki awaj kum kar Lo”….

Nonjudgmental : a simple solution …

Being nonjudgmental a concept which tell us to look beyond good or bad, fair or unfair. This leads us to empathy, where we can see beyond resultants. We stop judging people on deeds rather see for the means. Theoretically the world works on cause effect and socially we are trained to judge on effects. And when we start to see for the cause we move towards the broader picture which allows us to be nonjudgmental. We can breathe with more of trust and understanding. This is the place from where we can see less of the culprit in anyone; we can analyze situations better and see for better solutions. It enlightens us to look people beyond victims.

We judge less so we think more………

Musing just like that ....

Patterns of life......

In childhood we have energy, we have that courage to do anything which we feel like but we lack in knowledge and experience. We don’t have autonomy and resources. We don’t have direction, we are dependent. In adolescence we are creative spontaneous, we have guts that too power packed, but the missing element is the sincerity and vision.  As we grow up we develop a motive in life, we have resources backed by knowledge but where is that freak attitude that light hearted daring. Further all this leads to a calculated mind, a cautious species. Our society also contributes equally by restricting autonomy to kids (which obviously can’t be given), resources to adults and flowing adults with responsibility. Somewhere don’t you find all this strategic? All this gives me the feeling of maintaining balance and the one who maintains the balance with innovation finds the treasure.

                This is the beauty of life .......haina....

Westernization or Convenience?

Here I am, again with a question. Hope you don’t start thinking of me as confused women. Overruling your derivations and giving importance to my own instincts which believe in the quote of Albert Einstein “Important thing is not to stop questioning”.

So the question is we truly moving towards western world or it is  just the matter of convenience?

Everyone opting for English over Hindi is a cause to prefer market trend or reason is that learning 26 letter is easy as compared to ‘Matra’ combination  (no offence please I believe Hindi to be the most expressive language in itself).

Choosing jeans over saree or suit ... saree is one of the most elegant attire under the world. But given a choice to most of today’s women they will prefer jeans cause takes milliseconds to get ready and of course washing is the last thing which comes to mind.

Our education system the biggest gift or curse of British, don’t know. They obviously gave us an easy option in comparison to slokas and the gurukul system which was neither easy nor available to everyone because our nation is inflicted by the termites of caste discrimination.  Likewise if we see around we all will have ample of examples.

All this leaves me contemplating about another section of my mind which believes in my own culture and sayings. Though English is easy but I am more comfortable in Hindi, let jeans be any much comfortable still I look the best in a saree. Westernization can influence our mind but our soul is and will be Indian.

Then why whole lot of oldies are screaming about westernization.......