Sometimes 7 course meal is a good option..

Today’s youth at such small age have to undergo so much of stress. Escalating pressure of career engrossed with competition, exaggerated expectations from relationships, pimples, time and money management and what not.Why we want to consume it as an Indian meal all salad, papad, dal subji, roti at a time.

We want to have all on the first day of college and want to know all. Our aspirations and dreams are of the movie 2 states level and please don’t even question about the reality check regarding input they put in, it’s nill batte sannata...  This all in result lead to stress and anxiety. And frustration of youth goes on increasing exponentially. It’s all a game of expectations which come from inevitable globalization. Isn’t this globalocal world pretends itself too expensive???

Khuch toh log kahenge .......Logon ka kaam hai kehna .......

Above written is an Indian saying which means people will say something because this is their work to talk about.........

Nowadays a trending trend is - commenting on comments......it’s becoming a free of cost publicity stunt for many and trust me it’s frugal in every sense.... And a very good way to heat up the environment around. The only point of concern here is that people don’t take care of their domains, they comment all around....no doubt Twitter and Facebook have their empires running on this and they surely might be amicably investing in flaming all this. The question here is the rarely found common sense which let us curb our strongest muscle to stay in order and nowadays also restrict our fingers...... Social media is one of the most powerful and beautiful tool available in our hands with equitable demerits too. Just having a little bit of civic sense and emotional intelligence will be a guide to save us from hurting some unknown....Hope we understand ....

Logic for everything

Once upon a time there was a country known as India where what elders said was obeyed without any question....

I am sure soon this will be the opening line of a saga and people will feel nostalgic about the thought itself. Cause nowadays after every command (as perceived by elders) is  a question of why or why not... you a liable to explain if you want the task to be done or followed. You have to give logic, this radical generation asks for reasons at every step. Well still few ancient genes might be alive but with no guarantee. ...They want to know why to go to temple when God is omnipresent ... no they are not atheist ... they are so called GENX.. the logical ones...they want to know why Sikh wear turban and Jain’s do what they do. And mind you, only saying it’s in their tradition is not enough, your explanation has to be logical. This generation is inquisitive and thanks to psychologically driven parenting which says they are right and hence you are each and every moment standing in witness box.... and above all with a hope that we might be developing his intellectual skill with these logics which give our mind a roller coaster ride....... happy parenting ....

Happy Friendship day.............

We (>=30) never had friendship days. For us every evening was a celebration of friendship. Mothers used to start calling us back home by 7 and till 9 it used to be friendship day ... Cycling purposelessly for hours with no destinations was friendship day.... We never needed Kapil Sharma to make us laugh, we all had our individual ones to laugh out loud.... We never had friendship day because we were always together.

Life was not so busy ... we were not so apart....... Now with over poured to do list and overlapping responsibilities we also feel the need of friendship day...........

Miss u all......Happy Friendship day!!!

Pokémon and GST.......

My son asked me yesterday morning to dress him up for school and I said GST Bill has passed let me read it. He said is it Game of super Taekwondo. I smirked and thought what to expect else of this from Pokemon generation. Then too my mother’s heart itched and I tried to explain him about GST. And a question bounced at me back that is it going to affect video games and movies. I said shut up and go to school.

Then giving it a second thought I felt where he has been wrong. He can’t go to play, thanks to education system and tuition's don’t have time to make friends and roam around independently, credit goes to savdhan India and crime petrol. Even we as parents feel safe when they are at home in front of us.

So all the old school of parenting go in vain. We can’t upbring them in the way we were nurtured. We need a completely heuristic approach. And this leads us to a stage where we ourselves are conscious of our choices and want a ready to cook manual.

Hence forth struggling with Indian school of thought and Pokemon, then too the show is going on....this is the beauty of life ...  

Cause umeed pe Duniya kaayam hai .....

A student of mine said" ma’am.. Maa Hamesha aane wale exam ke liye yahi kehti Rahti ki Bas ye kar le phir Sab aasan Ho jayega " God knows when that time will come . Somewhere down on my heart I felt the pain of today's youngster who after studying for around 3/4th of their life and ultimately find themselves nowhere ....looking into his eyes felt guilty and indignant towards the rotten system.

He was still looking with aspiration for reply at me ... I replied, have you ever visited any astrologer.... He nodded ... I further said with ire ...he also replies the same...  cause both are the sellers of hope.... Both know that the important ingredient to motivate you is to keep you hopeful... in order to keep you persistent your mother implant dreams in your eyes without knowing that they are parallel rooted in her heart too.......

My version of Adam and Eve........

After reading this all males around me are going to look at me with twisted eyebrows... Yaar it's a womania effect, being a woman want to take this privilege and it's just a fiction so chillx guys ........and here we go....

Firstly God made the beautiful world and thought that he needs to make someone more beautiful than this nature, to relish it and he created women. After few years he himself got jealous with his creations peaceful and alluring life. She was happy with herself managing all well so he planned something ... He sent man to the world, initially there were conflicts and shattered peace all around. Few years God got ample amount of drama from his personal 70 mm screen (earth)... But eventually women mastered the art of managing men and world both. She cooked Good food, took care of everyone and everything around and did all to manage solace. Again she was at peace and God at unrest.. Again a khurafat in the process.... Hence he sent his bramastra ...The moment this invention comes into existence women's peace vanished... No guesses required Yepp its AULAD (child). Once this life blooms in her everything in her and around is stressed ... And till the moment she has breathe in her she is worried about this creation of God through her....

How's it??? My version...