Happy Friendship day.............

We (>=30) never had friendship days. For us every evening was a celebration of friendship. Mothers used to start calling us back home by 7 and till 9 it used to be friendship day ... Cycling purposelessly for hours with no destinations was friendship day.... We never needed Kapil Sharma to make us laugh, we all had our individual ones to laugh out loud.... We never had friendship day because we were always together.

Life was not so busy ... we were not so apart....... Now with over poured to do list and overlapping responsibilities we also feel the need of friendship day...........

Miss u all......Happy Friendship day!!!

Pokémon and GST.......

My son asked me yesterday morning to dress him up for school and I said GST Bill has passed let me read it. He said is it Game of super Taekwondo. I smirked and thought what to expect else of this from Pokemon generation. Then too my mother’s heart itched and I tried to explain him about GST. And a question bounced at me back that is it going to affect video games and movies. I said shut up and go to school.

Then giving it a second thought I felt where he has been wrong. He can’t go to play, thanks to education system and tuition's don’t have time to make friends and roam around independently, credit goes to savdhan India and crime petrol. Even we as parents feel safe when they are at home in front of us.

So all the old school of parenting go in vain. We can’t upbring them in the way we were nurtured. We need a completely heuristic approach. And this leads us to a stage where we ourselves are conscious of our choices and want a ready to cook manual.

Hence forth struggling with Indian school of thought and Pokemon, then too the show is going on....this is the beauty of life ...  

Cause umeed pe Duniya kaayam hai .....

A student of mine said" ma’am.. Maa Hamesha aane wale exam ke liye yahi kehti Rahti ki Bas ye kar le phir Sab aasan Ho jayega " God knows when that time will come . Somewhere down on my heart I felt the pain of today's youngster who after studying for around 3/4th of their life and ultimately find themselves nowhere ....looking into his eyes felt guilty and indignant towards the rotten system.

He was still looking with aspiration for reply at me ... I replied, have you ever visited any astrologer.... He nodded ... I further said with ire ...he also replies the same...  cause both are the sellers of hope.... Both know that the important ingredient to motivate you is to keep you hopeful... in order to keep you persistent your mother implant dreams in your eyes without knowing that they are parallel rooted in her heart too.......

My version of Adam and Eve........

After reading this all males around me are going to look at me with twisted eyebrows... Yaar it's a womania effect, being a woman want to take this privilege and it's just a fiction so chillx guys ........and here we go....

Firstly God made the beautiful world and thought that he needs to make someone more beautiful than this nature, to relish it and he created women. After few years he himself got jealous with his creations peaceful and alluring life. She was happy with herself managing all well so he planned something ... He sent man to the world, initially there were conflicts and shattered peace all around. Few years God got ample amount of drama from his personal 70 mm screen (earth)... But eventually women mastered the art of managing men and world both. She cooked Good food, took care of everyone and everything around and did all to manage solace. Again she was at peace and God at unrest.. Again a khurafat in the process.... Hence he sent his bramastra ...The moment this invention comes into existence women's peace vanished... No guesses required Yepp its AULAD (child). Once this life blooms in her everything in her and around is stressed ... And till the moment she has breathe in her she is worried about this creation of God through her....

How's it??? My version...

Where to go.... Bechara aaj ka youth.......

Youth of today gareeb don't have someone whom they can ask there endless questions. They don't know what they are doing why they are doing and what exactly they want?
 Parents obviously are infected by a disease called generation gap where they them self are trying to understand that how to be a friend of a 22 years techno savvy kid on the block. They (youth) have friends Jo unn jaise hi Hain .. Credit goes to group dynamics which at the end let people with same views remain intact. And being of same age we all are having aass pass ke common issues where the other side will always say yaar Same hai yahan bhi ....Then we have the so called soulmates.. she or he... With whom we are already having so many issues henceforth why to give a new topic of fight or discussion. So where to go whom to talk to. From where should we get the experienced advice else of magazines counselling columns and off course Google Baba. Whose authenticity is always a indignant question and too much of exposer is not that Gud always.....

They make us live in multiple worlds: books

Today I was glad when my 6 years doll asked me that “Maa when will be I able to read Geronimo ki series.”

 Well being a middle class kids that too of our generations (alas not that old) we poor were exposed to school books only. And bahut mummy ko laga toh, in vacations champak and chandamama were sacred gift. Rest we were asked school ki kitabein par lo wahi bahut hai.......At the end of teens mills and boon was considered as a luxury. Foreign authors were like gods. Infact availability of books was also a challenge in small cities. Again tier 1 cities were exceptional. Readers used to share books, discuss each twist with relevant expression and yes the one with latest novel was the richest. Now things are changing even kids have a huge section at books shops, and school along with sentient parents promote reading. For any readers books are not a luxury rather  it is a necessity.

Well books make us live in multiple world; they paraphrase our emotions and help us find ourselves. I mulled at the thought that books are introduced at a very early age but is reading taught .......??

Gossiping - a universal trait...........

Today after spending a complete day gossiping with friends felt guilty and got few thoughts to console my sole...

Why we are so negative about gossiping though it is a basic trait of Homo sapiens. Yes dear you read it right it's not only you-whole world is like that. Men can’t act as proponents and women's can't claim a copyright on it. It's a universal trait. Even the apes have interest in social communication, but the poor babies have trouble in gossiping. 

Wherever, whenever anyone gets a company (with common set of people involved)... What we see is- they rarely or lately discuss ideas. You think that when scientist go for dinner they talk about their project for all the 2 to 3 hours, they do, surely they do but not all the time they are often found discussing about some colleague or their dean and this happens with everyone. They discuss people. The so called "no bitching types" start with positive attitude but where do they end??

Well with a soul at peace and leaving you with guilt and a point to ponder further....